She is too pushy!

​behaving in a way by ​trying too much to get something or to make someone do something

I don’t like it, she is way too pushy..and by pushy I don’t mean physically. I generally can’t stand pushy people and especially if they come in the form of a girl trying to hook you into her ‘love trap’. Yes, A TRAP especially if you’re not really interested in her or of what she has to offer.
Some people are friends and they remain there, there is no scope of going to the next level.

Yes, I have read the famous line that says “A boy and a girl can never be friends forever”.. but at one point or another, they will fall for each other… Maybe temporarily, maybe at the wrong time, maybe too late, or maybe forever”
..and to an extent it is true..but then what are the chances of that happening from both sides at the same time? Very Rare!

So here goes MY situation..

There are 3 people…

X [miss pushy]

Y  [me]

Z [the adorable one] <3

Let’s presume I am the “Y” and “X” & “Z” are my female friends.

“X” likes “Y” but “Y” does not reciprocate because he sees “X” as a FRIEND ONLY and (a lot irritating at most times)

“Y” likes “Z” but “Z” sees “Y” as a very good friend and not more (which is tragic)

“Y” thinks “Z” would make the perfect partner for him and “Z” does not want to lose the best friend that “Y” has been to her (Friend-zoned…damn!!)fHctp.gif

The good thing to come out of all this is “Z” is single and “Y” likes her a lot.

I use the word “like” and not love for love is not one way but two way..and as far as the above little confusing story goes..its all one way 🙂

The good part here is at least I know what I want and I don’t..

Yes, I make an excellent best friend..I know that (my friends have told me). What girls need to know is I would make an equally terrific husband too. I can’t remain in this “zone” forever!! 😀

God, let 2016-17 be the year..Bless my parents with a good daughter-in-law and even cuter grand children. I ask nothing for myself, listen to my parents prayers 🙂

7 Replies to “She is too pushy!”

  1. All the very best in finding “The One” 😀

    1. I want to believe “z” is the one 😀

      1. Let’s hope for the best then. Maybe you should use your charm to woo her 😄

        1. We’re way beyond the ‘charming’ stage 😀😁 more in d decision n settling stage now

          1. Haha. Ok. Well she can’t keep dragging on forever. Maybe she will make her decision soon. Good luck! 👍🏼

  2. Good luck with “Z” there! 😊

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