Yesterday I was told (jokingly) “Savio, you are such a flirt” and this after I was making small talk with a girl who worked at a xerox shop. Now how does that qualify being a flirt? Was it maybe the way I say it, accompanied with a smile and I swear I didn’t do anything with my eyes. I had a laugh with my friend after she mentioned it.
No way! I’m NO flirt. I do share a very good rapport with the female sex, but that apart I don’t flirt or hit on all of them. Wait! I haven’t done it to even one of them. U see, how simple a guy I am? I am what you call ‘the Gentleman’ as my best friend (who also is a girl) says, after I sent her a whatsapp message to specifically ask
“Can I ask you something? Do you think I am a flirt? Do I flirt with you? Have I ever?” (Taking into consideration that this is one girl I really really..really like)
She replies in the negative and says something really sweet after that “u just are a gentleman man n make people comfortable around you” – I told you she is sweet, now isn’t that something a sweet girl like her would say?
[I refer to all my girl (friends) as girls even if they are women, it just sounds better..unless of course you are 45+ then they are fully
She continues to say
“C, I am used to guys flirting ..so I know when a guy is genuine n when he is a flirt, so you don’t don’t fall in da flirt category, otherwise I would have told you”
Wait! So I’m not a flirt..? Not even a little bit? Damn! If my best friend sees me as a gentleman over being a flirt, I believe her. She kind of reads me like a book, no idea what genre I would come under..maybe I should ask her. Yes.
…but not even a little bit???